Might you be the perfect monger? I suppose we would have to define ‘perfect’ first. There are two points of view to consider. There is the fellow-monger perspective and then there is the chica’s perspective. There is a certain amount of overlap. The perfect monger is, above all, rich. I suppose it wouldn’t hurt to be handsome and young and charming. Not a super high priority, but since we are talking about perfection, why not add that in. Another desirable would be the ability to speak the local language fluently. The ability to remain relatively emotionally unattached is desirable. It’s a plus to be able to like your chicas but to fall in love… well, that is generally considered a ‘no-no.’
From the chica’s point of view, there are a similarities and differences. Rich is absolutely necessary for perfection. In addition to being rich, the monger has to be GENEROUS. I’ve known more than a few pretty rich gringos who were, for lack of a better word, cheapskates. To the working girls, it doesn’t matter at all how rich you are if you’re a miser and don’t share the wealth.
As far as being young, handsome and charming and speaking the language, these are all pluses, although they will happily spend time with a homely, old geezer who is free with his money (in her direction) in preference to a handsome, rich, young, charming cheapskate. A girl’s got to make a living, after all.
Years ago I read a short article about prostitution in a Men’s magazine, and they asked the girl what her favorite kind of sex was. Her answer stuck with me through the years, to whit: “A rich quickie.” I don’t think there is a sex worker in the world who would turn her back on earning a lot of money for a few minutes work. I will grant that there are some chicas who would actually enjoy some hot sex in addition to the money, but I can pretty much guarantee that a rich quickie is just fine.
The perfect monger, from the working girl’s point of view, is also at least capable of forming an emotional bond. They might not want to live with their customer, but they wouldn’t mind at all if he buys them a house. Some of the chicas are actually looking for love and capable of it, while others are only in it for the maximum they can get from their monger.
So, are you the perfect monger from either perspective? I can tell you one thing.
I’m definitely not.